What’s your LEGACY?

Happy Thursday! (Exhale) I'm so excited to see Friday Eve; I can barely contain myself. November definitely came and turned me every which way but loose. If I'm supposed to be a professional fixer, the universe needs to go ahead and give me my credentials.

I hope your week has been tolerable. I know we can't control every situation, but we can control our actions and how much grace we extend. Today, I'd like you to think about the legacy you're creating. What values are you instilling in your family? Have you created a family outside of your regular family? How do you want to be remembered by others?

Remember, family and memories are not just about sharing blood but about sharing moments. Each memory we create, each tradition we uphold, and every little act of kindness within our family, both biological and chosen, weaves a tapestry of love and legacy. These connections form the bedrock of our lives, providing strength, comfort, and joy. As we navigate the complexities of life, let's cherish these bonds and the memories they hold, for they are the truest treasures we possess.

Entitlement

Happy Wednesday! These days are flying by so fast. How has your week been so far? Have you been standing firm on your principles and making others do the same when it comes to you and your well-being? If you haven’t, get back to it! I’m not sure what's going on, but HUMAN ENTITLEMENT is at an all-time high. 

People are expecting things they can't give and won't receive. Don't conform to anything you're not comfortable with. Mark your boundaries and stick to them.

You  are in control of your space and your energy. You are not responsible for meeting unreasonable expectations of entitlement from others. Your peace and well-being are paramount, and you have the right to protect them fiercely. Stand tall in your power, knowing that you owe nothing to those who demand without respect or understanding. Your strength lies in your ability to say no and to prioritize your own needs and values.

Guard your ENERGY

 Happy Tuesday! We are definitely starting this week off with actions and consequences. I've noticed that there's a lot of lingering energy that has no place. Make sure you're being mindful of what you're entertaining, as some things are distractions and really have nothing to do with you.

Today, you should work on not revisiting conversations, friendships, or locations that don’t add to the betterment of your life. You might also have to stop repeating yourself to certain people, as that's draining too. We have to stop being a crutch and an unofficial assistant to people who just can’t get it together.

Recognize the power of your energy and the impact it has on your life. Energy is precious and should be invested in places that nourish and enrich you. Today, pledge to guard your energy like a treasure and only share it in spaces that honor its value. Remember, you are not obligated to participate in every argument you're invited to, or to fix every problem that's presented to you. Focus your energy on what truly matters and watch as your life aligns with your highest good.

Perception vs. Reality

Happy Monday! Look how this new week crept right up on us. The weekend was so eventful that Monday seemed to come too soon. I truly hope everyone enjoyed their holiday and did things that suited their beliefs. Be aware that some may show a façade to shield their true emotions. Be kind anyway.

Today, I want you to think about how perception can shape your reality. Perception is a viewpoint on a situation based on your own experience, but the reality could be something entirely different. Often, people allow their perception of certain things and people to lead them in the wrong direction.

Perceptions are like windows to the world, but they are tinted by our experiences and biases. It's important to clean these windows regularly, to see the world and people as they truly are, not just as we assume them to be. Embrace this week with an open mind, allowing yourself to experience life beyond the constraints of your usual perceptions. This openness will lead to richer experiences and a more authentic understanding of the world around you.

Let it GO

 Happy Sunday! Please express gratitude to yourself before expressing it to anyone else. We deal with so many people filled with malice and dishonesty that we must be gentle with ourselves just to stay sane. This week, we need to focus on clearing out our dead weight. 

Sometimes, we hold on to memorabilia when we really should discard it. This can apply to people or things. We often blame others for behavior that doesn't meet our standards, but it's really our fault. Let's release this dead weight with a positive spirit, affirming our journey towards a lighter, more fulfilling life.

I need a REFILL

Happy Saturday! The weekend has arrived, and it feels as if it began on Thursday, doesn't it? What are your plans for today? If you're traveling, please be cautious and take your time. As for me, I intend to focus on self-love and spend quality time with those who are important in my life. My cup is empty so I’ll be getting a refill in every aspect. I’m running on residual energy. 

What do you do to refill? Do you have a circle that notices when you’re on empty? If you answered NO, get rid of everybody. Seriously ‼️ In the meantime I’m going to Breathe and Mind My Business 😘

Embrace the joy and relaxation often associated with the weekend.ENJOY YOUR SATURDAY ‼️

Recharge

 Happy Friday! I hope you all had a fantastic day with your family and friends. This Thanksgiving was filled with love, laughter, and undeniable joy. I hope the positive morale impacts your weekend. If you encounter those in the slumps during this season, give them a little extra love.

What plans do you have for the weekend? Don’t forget to do your self-care. Loving yourself will always supersede any other task. I’m an introvert, so I’ll recharge my energy from yesterday’s interactions. Breathing and minding my business is still on the agenda 😘.

Today, I think you should also do something you’ve been putting off all year. We have to STOP procrastinating. Remember, action today can prevent a day of regret tomorrow. Enjoy your FRIDAY!

Happy Thanksgiving 🦃

Happy Thanksgiving! 🍁🦃 I'm so thankful for each and every one of you. I hope today is filled with high-vibration moments and lots of new memories. Be kind to yourself today! I know the holidays trigger some of us, but don't let emotions or unpleasant thoughts ruin your day. 

Make it your mission to have a great day! Don't forget to extend an invitation to those who aren't spending this day with their families or loved ones. Enjoy all of your moments. Gravitate towards those who want to be in your presence.

Hump Day

 Happy Wednesday! We made it to hump day👏🏽👏🏽 ! I’m sure everyone is anxious and ready to spend time with their loved ones. I want you to also think about the people that are less fortunate to have their loved ones, INVITE THEM OVER! Small gestures mean a lot so please extend the invitation for tomorrow. 

My week started out sooooo chaotic but I’m thankful for the experience. It’s so easy to get distracted by the noise that we discredit what’s actually going right. Cherish your moments and keep giving yourself GRACE!

I’m still breathing and Minding my Business 😘

Jumanji 11.5

 Happy Tuesday!!! Woo-sah! This turkey  is definitely trotting on its own. It's evident this week is mimicking scene 11.5 from Jumanji! Please keep your sanity and stay focused on your overall goals for the week. Try not to become overwhelmed by frivolous demands and misguided expectations. My main goal is to breathe and mind my business. 

Remember that each step you take is a step towards your success. Embrace the challenges, as they are opportunities for growth. Believe in yourself and your abilities. You have the strength and resilience to handle whatever this day throws at you. Keep shining and progressing, and let this day be a testament to your unwavering determination and spirit!

Grace

 Happy Monday! 

Y'all, we are already swinging, and the day has just started. This week is definitely paving its own way. Please give yourself as much grace as you possibly can this week. Don't overexert yourself, and remember, you're only human. My main goal for today is to breathe and keep my pace.(THAT’s IT)

I know you'd like to meet all expectations and deadlines that come your way, but sometimes it's just not possible. Do what you can, and let someone else do the rest. Be kind to yourself today. You're definitely living out at least one of your prayers.

Perception

Happy Sunday! This week should be a breeze. I'm extremely excited to hear everyone's stories and to see all the pictures and videos of your travels and reunions with family and friends. This week, we're being intentional and observant. 

Focus on your happiness, and intertwine yourself only with people and things you love. Don't allow anyone to impose their perceptions on you. Your joy and peace of mind belongs to you! 

Happiness is important

Happy Saturday! What are your plans for today? Remember to indulge in some form of self-care. As it's Saturday, I encourage you to focus on the things and people that bring you joy. Life is incredibly short, so it's wise to surround yourself with positive energy as much as possible. Avoid devoting time to things and people that don't contribute to your happiness or peace.

Happiness is not just a fleeting moment but a state of being we can cultivate. It comes from appreciating the small joys, nurturing relationships that uplift us, and engaging in activities that fulfill us. Take time to reflect on what brings you genuine happiness and make an effort to incorporate more of those elements into your life. Happiness, after all, is contagious - when we are happy, we spread that joy to others around us. Let's make happiness a priority in our lives.

Just Do It

 

Happy Friday! Let's give a round of applause for the weekend. What are your plans? I aim to organize my Christmas decorations and treat myself to a massage as part of my self-care routine. Remember, it's crucial to indulge in self-care, no matter how big or small the gesture. Just do it!

Today,I urge you to cultivate a sense of urgency for matters related to your well-being. Procrastination, with its illusion of endless time, is a trap. Remember, tomorrow is not guaranteed, so avoid postponing important tasks. Run your errands, complete a task, or express feelings like an apology or love today. 

Hold yourself accountable! By doing so, you're not only respecting your current self but also honoring your future self. Let this weekend be a stepping stone towards a proactive, fulfilling life where you prioritize your needs and well-being.

I love you ❤️💕

 Happy Thursday! We have one more week until Thanksgiving 🦃. Do you plan to cook for your family, or are you visiting others who are cooking? If I had my way, I’d definitely be on vacation near a beach somewhere, and my dinner would be prepared by a chef. 🤗 

The holidays are meant to be spent with family, friends, and those whom you cherish dearly. Today, I want you to think about the people and the moments you're most thankful for this year. Go out of your way to show compassion and kindness to those you cherish deeply. It’s so easy for us to get caught up in life and forget to express ourselves to others.

Give out the random “I Love You,” say thank you, and offer a gesture rather than a demand. Surround yourself with people that value you as a person. 

Big ENERGY

 Happy Wednesday! This week is doing its own little turkey trot. We're almost back at the weekend's door. 😁 How has this week treated you thus far? I've been really staying focused and standing firm on business when it comes to everything and everybody. My thoughts and opinions are extremely clear, and I credit that to freeing up my energy from BS situations and people.

Today, I challenge you to check your energy bank. Are you draining your battery with a situation that's not going anywhere? If so, push it to the back burner. You have to prioritize your energy in order to be the best version of yourself. It’s okay to be SELFISH.

Remember, managing your energy wisely is crucial for maintaining not only your mental and emotional well-being but also for fostering a positive impact in the world around you. When you focus on nurturing and conserving your energy, you open up more space for creativity, productivity, and kindness. Your energy is a valuable asset; treat it as such. Let this be a reminder that prioritizing your well-being isn't just beneficial for you, but it also enables you to contribute more effectively to the lives of those around you. Stay energized, stay focused, and keep shining!

Shine bright

 Happy Tuesday! Y'all, we have really run through 2023 like a Tomb Raider character! I'm in awe of all the accomplishments and wins I've seen from so many different people. I don't know if anyone has told you lately, but you're really f***ing awesome! 

Do you know how much courage, dedication, and confidence it takes to just be you every day and keep going when things seem unachievable? I want you to always give yourself a pep talk and remind yourself of how you didn't cheat the grind and that you're deserving of everything coming to fruition.

It's important to glide in your power EVERY DAY... NEVER DIM your light‼️

It’s definitely Refreshing

Happy Monday! Yay for another Monday! I'm so excited for everything planned for this week. This is the first day in over four years that I feel refreshed and free. I am so blessed and grateful for those who love me out loud, even when I don't have the energy to love myself properly.

Life be Life-ing and having its way!  Those silent battles are often meant to break us, but we are truly resilient. 🤗Today, let's take a moment to stop and smell the roses. Count your blessings, and if it's a blessing in human form, give it an extra kiss.

Today, pause to appreciate the beauty around you, recognizing each moment and person as a precious gift to be cherished.

Thankful

Happy Sunday! I hope you have rested this weekend and stored up enough energy to tackle the week ahead. We're only 30 seconds away from Thanksgiving. What are you most thankful for this year? I'm sure the responses vary according to individual situations.

Let's touch on situations for a moment. Have you ever encountered someone who was reared differently than you and immediately noticed it? Some of us were reared with love, and others with nothing but survival tactics. Even though we're all the same in many ways, this small difference can have a huge impact on our relationships.

Think about the differences we have with each other. Consider how we cope in unpleasant situations.You should embrace the diversity of experiences and perspectives, understanding how they enrich life and foster empathy and understanding in all relationships."

Take The Trash Out

 Happy Saturday! What are you doing today? The weather convinced me to stay in, and I’m going to follow its lead. Today, I want you to think about what you’re holding onto that’s affecting your peace of mind. Is it really worth it? 

Prepare to rid yourself of things that don’t make you feel good about your future. You might be clinging to a situation, memory, or a tainted relationship. Let it go! We have to treat ourselves better, and that starts with letting go of what we'll call the trash.

Value who Values YOU

Happy Friday! The weekend often brings a much-needed sigh of relief. What are you looking forward to? Don't forget to incorporate some self-care into your Saturday plans. Additionally, I encourage you to reflect on how those you value actually value you in return. 

Do they show up for special events? In our social media-driven world, do they wish you a happy birthday publicly?Are they making an effort to reciprocate the energy you give them? If not, it might be time to reassess their significance in your life. Never allow them to make you an afterthought. Stop surrendering your power to those who don't deserve it.

Remember, valuing yourself is paramount. Recognize your worth and surround yourself with people who appreciate and uplift you. Your time, energy, and emotions are precious; invest them in relationships that are reciprocal and nurturing. When you hold yourself in high esteem, you set the standard for how others should treat you. Cherish your own worth and watch your life transform positively.

Happy Friday!

Expecting Everything

Happy Thursday! What’s on your agenda for today? I’m eagerly looking forward to the day’s potential adventures. Do you carry a sense of expectation into your days? I certainly maintain high expectations for every aspect of my life. When I write down my thoughts, I fully expect them to come true.

How do you ensure that you meet your own expectations and standards? Are you intentional with your actions? If not, I would encourage you to start being so today. Set your intentions and align your actions to bring your plans to fruition. 

I believe it’s crucial to have a positive outlook and establish clear, achievable goals. By being proactive and purposeful in our daily activities, we can ensure that our actions are in harmony with our goals, often surpassing our expectations.

No Stinking Thinking ‼️

Empty your Pockets

 Happy Wednesday! How is your mental state? Are you functioning at an adequate capacity? If not, step back and refresh yourself. Many of us are carrying people who don't even have the energy to crawl for themselves. ✳️Read it again✳️

If that's you, yesterday should have been your last day operating beyond your capacity. I know we all want the best for our close friends and family, but we have to know when to withdraw support. We must start letting people float on their own or sink. It may sound cruel, but it's necessary.

Today, I’d like for you to consider who and what you are carrying around. As you do, remember this Wednesday brings a new day full of possibilities. Let it be a day of encouragement to gently set down the burdens that aren't yours to carry. Encourage autonomy and foster independence, not only in others but also in yourself. 

May you find the strength to prioritize your well-being, and in doing so, become a lighthouse for those learning to navigate their own seas. Let this Wednesday be the day you begin to lighten your load and breathe a little easier.

KEEP THE EXCUSE YOU JUST THOUGHT ABOUT ‼️ LET GO…

Own it

 Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had a phenomenal Monday. Our days turn out to be whatever we make of them. Often, we have excuses for certain situations, but we are in more control than we give ourselves credit for. It's important to own the things you can control and let go of those that are beyond your reach. As you maneuver through your Tuesday, pay attention to the situations you can control.

As we embrace this Tuesday, let us affirm that it is a day filled with potential. Let us acknowledge that each moment is ripe with opportunity, and we have the power to shape our experiences. We can choose to approach our tasks with enthusiasm and find joy in the small things. Let this day be a reflection of our determination and positivity, where we act with intention, foster kindness, and rise above challenges with grace. May this day be as extraordinary as the efforts we choose to put forth.

Power vs Discernment

Happy Monday!

 Let's give a round of applause for the beginning of another week. I know some people don't like Mondays, but I do. This week, I plan to take my power back, and I hope you'll dig deep within yourself and do the same. By "power," I am referring to strength and the discernment to either speak up or ignore sh!? that doesn't serve you. Today, I would like you to write down all the things you feel are out of your control.

While you’re digging acknowledge that every challenge is an opportunity for growth. Choose to focus on what you can control and release worries about what you cannot. You are capable, strong, and ready to embrace the possibilities that this new week holds. Your potential is limitless, and your actions are infused with intent and purpose. Today, you are a beacon of positivity and determination, and you can carry this energy with you throughout the week.

No Short Cuts

 Happy Sunday! We are starting our new week off on the right track. This month is going to be full of transformations and new beginnings! This week you’re going to set yourself up for success. Stop focusing on what’s in front of you, Focus on your overall goal. Sometimes you have to do what you gotta do so you can eventually do what you want to do. No matter how you view it you can’t skip the work. Stop trying to take short cuts while expecting great results. 

Happy Sunday! 

You are Worthy

Happy Saturday! I hope you are doing something for yourself today. Remember, you deserve to have a moment of excellence. I know this past week was overwhelming, but you have to keep reminding yourself that you are worthy. You are worthy of greatness; you deserve to be respected, cherished, and appreciated. Don’t get so caught up in life that you dismiss your worth.

Happy Saturday ‼️

Grace & Mercy

Happy Friday! I've been laying at Friday's door since Wednesday! Weekend, I need you to be exceptionally good to us. How are you all feeling? Does anyone have any solid plans for the weekend? Whatever you do, incorporate some form of self-care. You are more than deserving of it.

I can't help but ponder how disruptive and delayed things have been these last few days. Life has definitely been "life-ing," and I'm sure "Grace & Mercy" are tired because I still have them on speaker—I'm not hanging up. Life is so full of unexpected events that you have to pay attention to the things you can control. Don't allow bullsh** to ruin your story or overcrowd your judgment. Get rid of anyone who's playing both sides and rid yourself of anything that brings discomfort or unhappiness.

No that we’ve gotten that out of the way! Enjoy your weekend. Recognize that we’ve overcome the hurdles of the week and now stand at the threshold of rejuvenation. 

Delayed

 Happy Thursday! November started off in true Scorpio fashion—untamed. Yesterday was extremely rough. I was definitely the poster child for the saying “Can’t Get Right.” If your day was breezy, I’m going to label you a favorite of the universe.

When adversity strikes, what do you do? Do you try to manipulate the situation, or do you just let things fall where they may and mind your business? Wednesday made me realize that sometimes what you think is right isn't right for now. In life, we have to pay attention to the signs when we are redirected for our own good.

How many times have you been delayed and started throwing a fit? That could possibly be the number of times the universe saved your life.

It's important to remember that while challenges can be frustrating, they often come with hidden blessings. Adversity can be a powerful teacher, and delays can sometimes be disguised as life-saving interventions. Acknowledging this can bring a sense of peace and trust in the flow of life. Keep looking for the signs and trust that sometimes, the universe is indeed steering you in the right direction, even if it doesn't seem apparent at the moment.

Next Level

Happy Wednesday! We've made it to November. Wow! 2023 really flew right by us. I'm sure most of us were so caught up in daily activities that we missed out on enjoying the worldly festivities. Today, I want you to evaluate what you've accomplished from January to this very moment. Did you achieve your primary goals? Did you even have any standout moments this year? 

I personally feel like this year exposed every hand that THOUGHT they were dealing me anything other than an ACE OF ♠️. If I'm being honest, this year humbled me and let me down in ways that would have made most people give up. Today, I'm challenging you to elevate your game. Stop doing the bare minimum and realize your full potential. Be intentional with your time and day. Stop investing time in things and people that don't align with your vision for tomorrow.

Affirmations for Wednesday!

1. Embrace new opportunities that come my way.

2. You are a force of positivity and productivity.

3. Every challenge is a stepping stone to my success.

4. I trust in my journey and the path I'm on.

5. Today, I choose growth, love, and abundance.