It’s okay to let go..

 

Tuesday is that you? I feel like this week is about to do the 100-yard dash and honestly, I’m here for it. What did your Labor Day look like? Mine was filled with nothing but reading and random giggles, which was exactly what I needed. In just a few days, I’ll officially have a 22-year-old. Every time I think about my kid being 22, I get anxiety. I’ve spent 21 years shielding him from the harshness of the real world, and now I feel it’s time to let him explore whatever version of himself he wants to be. I’m prepping myself to step back, stop smothering, and allow him to make his own mistakes. Outside of my two baby Kardashians, I’m kid-free—and that thought alone makes me dream about what country I’m hopping to for 90 days at a time. Yes, I’m ready.

Last night, I sat and thought about how much my life has shifted in less than 90 days. My circle has decreased drastically, and my voice conversations are down to just four people. Truth is, I don’t have the energy to lend anymore. If you know me, you know I’m not sitting on the phone with anyone unless they’re feeding or funding me—you know the rest, lol. I shapeshifted my life in seven days and I’m proud of that decision. Most of my frustrations were tied to entertaining humans who brought no real value and can't relate to where I'm trying to go in life. At this age, most of us already have our circles and our families set. The odds of adding random people for the long haul are slim.So guess what? Unless God himself tells me we need to be COOL, I'm COOL!

If you really know me, then you know I analyze everything and back it up with facts. That’s why I can say without hesitation that I have no business holding conversations with anyone who doesn’t know their worth. Life is too short to waste time on meaningless exchanges that leave you drained instead of filled. In case you didn't already know, I'm back in the House and I'm PUT UP! (I play between IAH~ DFW {Ghost Mode} IYKYK 😊)I tried to come outside but the people were so mediocre that I started to question the energy I was putting out. Protecting your peace requires boundaries, and boundaries mean recognizing when certain energies don’t deserve access. Once you learn how to detach from what doesn’t serve you, you begin to see how quickly life aligns in your favor.

So as we tackle Tuesday, I want you to ask yourself what you’re doing to enhance your own life. Write it down on paper and start the transformation today. Don’t wait for the perfect moment—it doesn’t exist. The changes you’re seeking won’t happen overnight, but every intentional step counts. Don't be afraid to let go of ANYTHING that doesn't make sense to you or your future self. Protect your peace, honor your growth, and let the week sprint by knowing that you’re in control of your path.