HELLO OCTOBER….
Happy Wednesday!!
How have you been? Long time no chat, huh? What’s been going on with you this week? How has your mental health been? Can y’all believe we wrapped up September with three blinks? I swear last month went by faster than a meteor shower. Guess what—you’ve got 90 days to get out of your own way and get your life together so you don’t drag the same shenanigans into 2026. Stop procrastinating. The year isn’t over yet, and you still have time to rewrite the story you’ll tell yourself on New Year’s Eve.
Speaking of these 90 days, let me be transparent—this is a safe place, right? I’ve redesigned my whole life, all the way down to the water I drink. Anything, any place, or any person that doesn’t align with my new reality can’t and will not come with me. I woke up one day and told myself I deserve a safe place in every single area of my life. That hyper-independence I used to carry like a badge of honor? Gone. Let someone else figure that out. “I don’t know and I don’t want to know” has become my solution to things that drain me. I’ve learned that I thrive when I’m loved deeply and surrounded by genuine adoration. For the next 12 months, I’m committed to pouring into myself and catching every ounce of overflow. Fairy tales do exist and I’m adamant about living in my own.
Here’s the real talk: if you haven’t gone to the next level, it’s because you don’t want it badly enough. I know that sounds harsh, but comfort is a powerful drug. Growth requires consistent discomfort—showing up when it’s hard, saying no when you’d rather say yes, and sacrificing temporary pleasure for lasting progress. The truth is, you can’t manifest what you aren’t willing to work for, and no one’s coming to drag you across the finish line. Stop bullshitting yourself. You’ve had the vision all along; now you need to honor it with action.
Another thing people often overlook is how their relationship with money might actually be a trauma response. Maybe you grew up watching money cause chaos or were taught that wanting more made you greedy. Those experiences linger in your subconscious and might be why you self-sabotage or feel unworthy of abundance. Healing that mindset is as important as making more money. Once you shift how you view wealth—from something to fear to something that supports your well-being—you’ll start making decisions that match the life you say you want.
Finally, look at who’s in your circle. You’re only as good as the smartest person you know, and that’s not just a catchy phrase—it’s a fact. If you’re the one always giving advice, carrying the vision, or leading the charge, you’re in the wrong room. Surround yourself with people who challenge your thinking, inspire bold moves, and call you higher. As the last quarter of the year unfolds, make the choice to upgrade your environment, heal your money story, and protect your peace. When you align your circle with your goals and pour into yourself unapologetically, you’ll finally stop bullshitting yourself—and you’ll step into 2026 as the person you were always meant to be.
